Just as I thought he has stopped bugging me, I was way off the mark. I’ve deleted him off of my contact list and he’s no longer on my messenger list but somehow he could see me online. I’ve put him on stealth before I deleted him off. Yahoo goes bonkers I suppose.
He said ‘hi’ and I tried not to be rude since its Ramadhan, I replied. I shouldn’t have, but I did.
I hardly get mad. Hardly. The only thing that could (I think) tick me off is the influx of idiots on the road.
Ok back to the story…
I knew this guy thru FB (not a surprise) he’s a friend of a friend. Being married with three kids I suppose he’s safe but it did not stun me that he’s been a little off of being flirty. I have numerous vague picture of me on FB. I don’t share my face with strangers, mom forbids :D. And chat friends to me are considered strangers. But I’d be lying if I say I do not share at all… I do share with some friends, over time. Meaning, you gotta let me know you better for me to share my face. And that’s my prerogative I believe? And this guy eternally asked me every single day since the day he got my digits. Each time we had a communication he will ask for my picture. After so much asking, being a baik-hati (more like getting bored of being asked the same friggin question), I succumbed. I shared him one clear picture of me on my cousin’s wedding day. I thought he’d stop yaking ma tail, but I thought it wrong. He asked for more. When I refused, he accused me of lying. He claimed that it wasn’t my picture I gave him. It was someone else’s. That accusation of his really pissed me off. Hence, I stop talking to him, besides, he’s already married why would I wanna be bothered by such nuisance. He questioned my sincerity. Now who is not being straight here? Me or him. If he is genuine and sincere he wouldn’t even be asking for my picture. He wouldn’t care how I look like now would he?
But my mistake probably I did not delete him off of my list yet, I just ignored him. Cuppla weeks ago he commented on my stats message on FB. I couldn’t remember what, but it made, well sorta… bagi jalan for him to ask for my picture (AGAIN!!!!).
You know what I did? I publicly said to him that I was sorry I couldn’t reply to his calls ciz I ran outta credits. Obviously I was lying but he gave me no choice. That comment of mine on my page has made him sent a private message asking me to delete off my public comment. I replied again on my page asking him to have the conversation publicly and stop sending me private messages, to which his reply was “I shouldn’t be contacting you right?”
Alhamdulillah! He finally got the message.
But that was many few weeks ago. Yesterday he said ‘hi’ and wished happy Ramadhan. I replied, “Happy Ramadhan to you too”.
Guess wot? It did not end there. He continued with “where’s your picture, you promised to send me pictures of you?”
Good God!!!! A re-run. Not again!!! Are all men this incorrigible?
Ummm… never mind! Don’t answer that…
you know dots, there's this research i stumbled into and they found out that men, when facing some good looking gals, becomes dumb.
ReplyDeletei have no idea why they did a bloody research on that since it is pretty obvious to me.
oh hey... here's the link
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/6132718/Men-lose-their-minds-speaking-to-pretty-women.html
wow.. guys really need to know when a girl is just 'being nice'.
ReplyDeleteperhaps you should say what you mean to him. and try to not sugar-coat at all. maybe it'll shake him off. =/
Saya sedia menerima tawaran membelasah lelaki itu kerana saya benci lelaki-lelaki jenis itu sampai ke tulang disebabkan hidup saya pernah dicolek oleh spesis-spesis tersebut dan saya rasa tidak menjadi masalah sekiranya saya menghentam beliau di bahagian spinal cordnya supaya beliau lumpuh seluruh badan atau saya boleh sahaja lancarkan serangan pukulan berbisa pada urat saraf yang membolehkan beliau mati pucuk dan menjadi lelaki yang loser di ranjang sehinggakan keluarganya retak.
ReplyDeleteGood technique you have there. It works huh.
ReplyDeleteBtw nah don't believe in that article. Life is just way too much more interesting and colorful than that.
TeaD, Chan, Sir & Doc
ReplyDeleteI've spoken to a good friend of mine about this and he suggested me to give whatever this guy wanted to see.
A picture of a blondie flashing boobs.
But then again, he'd be asking for more! Hmmm....
huhu... got urself a stalker there eyy!!!
ReplyDeletewell it's half true that most guys lost their mind biler jumpe awek cun... half true sebab not all jadik dumb and start harassing them... the wierd and stalkerish ones ajer yg buat camtu... some confident one will actually try their luck.. but most will have a picture of them together in their head and just leave it at that.. sebab kami tau... we stand no chance what so ever...
Abu, I purely understand how curiosity works. Human gets curious, period. But what I couldnt tolerate is persistency. And this guy is simply incurable.
ReplyDeleteDottie,
ReplyDeleteMind me, but those men that become dumb are a natural dumbass. How can you become dumb by talking to a hottie? Hahah.
Ok, this entry reminds me of something that occurs ages ago with my staff. She was stalked by a man, yeah, married man.
She was so disturbed with this man calling her now and then dah lebih macam laki bini dah (ok, laki bini tak telefon so many times, yeah I was told). Well, being such a wonderful, sweet, understanding boss (ok I am exaggerating), I offered my help.
When this man called her phone, I answered and told him she is in the ladies. Yeah, his voice were stammering. And courteously, I asked him, may i know whos calling, and he did mentioned his name.
And I said, ok, I will let her know that he called. Of course he asked who am I. And again, courteously, I answered, ohh this is the husband. And that was his last call.
Anyway, amidst all the baik hati and lembik bila kena pujuk, awat pi bagi gambar berkali kali tu? Ishh..
Sebab tulah I neber laik men. I laik women.
Cheers Dottie! Selamat Hari Raya!
Hazrey, I only gave him once and because i refused to give him another that was why he kept on pestering me. Men are simply weird kan that is why u never like men :P
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