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"To some people, love is just for having fun. Or maybe it's solely for having fun per se. However, I beg to differ. My personal view about love is that it is a great feeling of passion, caring, sincerity and empowerment for the person I fall in love with. Do I need to elaborate on the aforementioned statement? I don't think so."

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An excerpt from a blog I read recently, felt like writing something about it after reading one of the paragraphs in one of his entries.

I don't know how people perceive the true meaning of love. After dating many guys (whoah!!! 'many' tuuu haha) for the past four friggin' years (hasn't been that long really…), I'm still not sure if i understand what it really means. Sure it has been fun. But it has been super duper depressing too. Not to mention, messing around with sleeping and eating patterns.

The most precious thing I have gained was the experience, I've learned a lot - especially through failure. However, learning never really taught me how to avoid the same mistakes (call me stupid if you must). The lessons have always been there. But have I really followed the right path? I cant tell ciz I've never been good in keeping a relationship.

I love being in love I think it's one of the greatest feelings in this world. It keeps me happy. It gives me lots of reasons to wake up in the morning. I saw the sun shines even if it rains. I smile a lot. Not to forget, hopes and dreams. I don't see it as a fling. I know its love when it is love.

I see love as being with that person for the rest of my life. Do everything that needs to be done by every couple. However, every dream has its nightmare. Loving someone isn't as easy as it sounds. It takes ages to accept the person as a whole. Some might say that it's a bullshit when one say 'i love everything about you' or 'i accept you for who and what you are'. But isn't love is THE motivating factor to tolerate, to compromise, to adjust, and to put up with?

There are people who only meet their true love a few years before they die. Others have so much time to waste and keep meeting up with the wrong ones. Perhaps Allah the al-mighty wants us to made few wrong turns before reaching the destiny. Afterall, its the journey that counts.

Me? I did promise myself one thing if I ever fall in love again, and if i have to lose the one I love one day…Que sera sera, I'm just gonna let it be. Its better to be a has been than a never was. At least I had the chance to fall in love and being loved, even if its just for a while. 

The rest is still unwritten.....