:: Marry me? ::

One of my girlfriends came to me feeling disappointed about her wedding proposal.  In fact she's been poutingly telling everybody how unromantic he was.

It was a low-key proposal while she had expected something more of a.... classy.

I remember how Alyssa's dad did his.  It was just after two months knowing him. I misplaced my car keys and he helped me finding them. As I reached for the keys he was holding, he held back a little and grabbed em in his palm and said 'Marry me! You obviously need me.' 

I laughed as I thought he was, you know, men, they just love toying around. Make you fell you are in cloud 9. Make you believe like he'll be there when you need him. You know, bulls stuff like that.

Then he repeated it again in a deep low note, 'Marry me. I need you.'

I knew then after, he was dead serious.

It wasn't really romantic to some when I was asked about how I was asked. He didn't even have a ring with him or gotten down on his knees. But it didn't really matter. 

I don't even mind if its just a Grey's Anatomy's post-it-note kinda proposal.  It was cute enough. Like the picture here.

Perfume vials I received today. Not a proposal though. I wish, but no.

::Oh! Baby!::

Look at the patty.

And the lettuce.

And those pickles.

With sesame bun!

:: Six-word Story ::

Legend has it that Ernest Hemingway was challenged to write a story in only six words.  The challenge was to make a story that was so good that could make people cry.

Above is his six-word story.

Choose right words, change your life.



 

:: Brain Orgasms ::

It is so very frequent you hear a man attracted to a girl who has been working in the same place with him, over time.  How can you not fall for a brilliant-hilarious-sweet- wonderful-to-talk-to human?  People too can grow on us. 
 

Often you meet a man who didn’t find his workmate irresistibly attractive ten years back as he finds her now.  It’s the new rule of attraction.  The ancient rule that goes ‘You can tell if you’re truly attracted to someone in three seconds’ just doesn’t cut it anymore.
 

Sometimes, a man blaming a girl for being so appealing, for he has an erection.  Even though to some men it’s usually the mental fantasy that triggers it, more so than just the image of a beautiful woman, regardless what clothes she's wearing. There were cases.

But how common do you hear or meet with a girl who receives texts, from her boss, asking how often she meets an orgasm or how often does she masturbate, or would she like to have private lunch/dinner with him or does she mind sharing room with him?  

I have had some of those.  Indecent texts, and I ignored almost all of them and it eventually stopped.

I know those texts won't really turn into a rip-my-clothes-off situation.  But it still is sexual-harassments. 

I am penning this down following the case of Melissa Nelson.  I ain't sure how she dressed up to work.  Maybe it was too little too sexy.  Or how she reacted to the sexual innuendos of her boss, maybe she did find it as revolting as I did.  But you know, he’s ‘the boss’.  You are damned if you do and damned if you don't.  

The sad truth is girls, you don’t have to be sexy or wearing body hugging clothes for someone to get a boner.  You don’t even have to try.  Sometimes it’s your smile, or the way you walk, or talk.  Since men are visual the little man can pop up at the sight of you, the smell of your perfume, the touch of your hair, or even the length of your hijab if you don one, or even the thought of you.

Men, trust your mind and your privates will follow.  And ladies, it's not easy to be attractive. 

:: Art of Giving ::

It is not easy to take the time to put your wants aside and think about the person receiving the gift.  Especially when you're just 7.

But Alyssa is that kind of person.  She'd sacrifice her daily allowances just to buy gifts.  Since the incident on mother's day, where she showed her 'compassion'  in giving presents, I knew then, that I would be receiving a lot from her. 

So, I got this pink mechanical pencil for my birthday from her.  She knows that I like to write in pencils.  For easy alterations.  

Thank you baby.  I love you so much.

I'm a year older!!!