:: Brain Orgasms ::

It is so very frequent you hear a man attracted to a girl who has been working in the same place with him, over time.  How can you not fall for a brilliant-hilarious-sweet- wonderful-to-talk-to human?  People too can grow on us. 
 

Often you meet a man who didn’t find his workmate irresistibly attractive ten years back as he finds her now.  It’s the new rule of attraction.  The ancient rule that goes ‘You can tell if you’re truly attracted to someone in three seconds’ just doesn’t cut it anymore.
 

Sometimes, a man blaming a girl for being so appealing, for he has an erection.  Even though to some men it’s usually the mental fantasy that triggers it, more so than just the image of a beautiful woman, regardless what clothes she's wearing. There were cases.

But how common do you hear or meet with a girl who receives texts, from her boss, asking how often she meets an orgasm or how often does she masturbate, or would she like to have private lunch/dinner with him or does she mind sharing room with him?  

I have had some of those.  Indecent texts, and I ignored almost all of them and it eventually stopped.

I know those texts won't really turn into a rip-my-clothes-off situation.  But it still is sexual-harassments. 

I am penning this down following the case of Melissa Nelson.  I ain't sure how she dressed up to work.  Maybe it was too little too sexy.  Or how she reacted to the sexual innuendos of her boss, maybe she did find it as revolting as I did.  But you know, he’s ‘the boss’.  You are damned if you do and damned if you don't.  

The sad truth is girls, you don’t have to be sexy or wearing body hugging clothes for someone to get a boner.  You don’t even have to try.  Sometimes it’s your smile, or the way you walk, or talk.  Since men are visual the little man can pop up at the sight of you, the smell of your perfume, the touch of your hair, or even the length of your hijab if you don one, or even the thought of you.

Men, trust your mind and your privates will follow.  And ladies, it's not easy to be attractive.