Friday, April 15, 2011

:: Second date Story ::

So I went out with this guy about two weeks ago, and we had a great time.  It was brief.  About an hour or so. We just had lunch somewhere in Klang Lama  and he suggested that we should meet up again last week and that he would come to Kuantan. The kicker being that I know what's around here so I can choose the spot for the date.  But that didn’t happen as I had another training on Wednesday and Thursday in KL.  Drove there a day earlier and we had our second date on that Tuesday.  

We spent 8 great hours together doing nothing but talk and talk, and we had Kyros Kebab for lunch then we continue on talking and we drove around KL and we stopped for coffee somewhere in KLCC and we talked again then we went off for a quiet dinner somewhere in Ampang and continue on talking.

Its been quite a while since my last date that I lost my fashion sense.
  Really.

I wore green Tshirt, Black Scarf, blue jeans and light pink Crocs Hello Kitty Cayman.  And oh.  My fuchsia purse. Yeah! Blardy colorful.  I know.

I can explain on those shoes.

That morning before I drove off to KL, I loaded both Alyssa and her stuff in the car to send her off to her playschool, that my feet slipped into Cayman that was there in front of the door without changing it to my proper shoes.  And when I reached at the hotel where I was staying, I couldn't get into the room as the hotel will only release the room at 2pm.  And it was just 12 noon.  So I left my stuff at the concierge while he was already there.  Waiting.  

Alright, two things there.  First, I don’t quite comfortable having someone to wait for me and secondly, I don’t want to waste even a second of my time as I think every second worth a lot when I’m with him.  I was so much in a hurry that I forgotten to change the shoes and change whatever I was wearing into something more attuned to dating mode.

So there I was, 8 hours with this great guy, wearing Crocs cayman.  And he had to laugh to the color combo of my outfit.  He just had to.

There and then, I was thinking that there will be no third date as I failed on my second date.  Bigtime!

But this morning, just this morning, he said that if he is to bring me to his mom wearing the stuff I was wearing the other day, sure kena reject

Heyyyyyy...!!!

He was thinking of introducing me to his mom!!! 

Although the ‘sure kena reject’ sentence was adversely unpleasant, but yeah!  He did think of it now didn't he? (ayat nak sedapkan hati)



14 comments:

  1. Awww, that is so sweet.

    We are very simple. As long as we are interested, anything goes. Don't too worry about it.

    If a man would turn down the next date because of earlier wardrobe disasters, biarkan lah. These kind of man is not worth your time, really.

    And of course, being honest commenting and laugh at the colours combi is a plus point! At least it's memorable. Kan?

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  2. ohooooo Birthie... it surely is memorable. Sampai hari ni pun tak habis lagi cerita.

    Is there any dress code for dating?

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  3. i *always* read fuchsia wrong.

    btw... i thought he's overseas or something. :p

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  4. you brain needs cleansing TD.

    owh! The one oversea tu boyfriend lain. I have few. Dont tell this guy okay.

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  5. Nah, no dress code. Dress like yourself. Dress clean.

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  6. The book you mean Sir? Ada hari tu TD pinjam tak pulang kan balik :P ask him.

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  7. Birthie, although I've lost my fashion senses, I still have my hygienic sense in tact :P

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  8. Yeah, hygiene is the most important. Fashion trend changes all the time. Just dress what you're comfy with.

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  9. t shirt and jeans is fine by me... :)
    it's the conversation that matters most that what you wear or don't wear for that matter :)

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  10. What I wear or do not wear. Hmmm... I was just thinking, would we be having the conversation if I'm not wearing anything? hahaha :P just teasing

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  11. hahahaha... that would be a different kind of conversation i think... :D

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  12. Wooooooooooooooooooooo! someone's in love, eh? Tell him that if you dress up to the nines to meet his mom, there's no guarantee "sure tak kena reject" either coz his mom would then say things like "high maintenance" or wonder aloud if you are not too self-absorbed to take care of her son's future household etc. Just dressed comfortably and be yourself coz you are a warm and wonderful person and that is what matters most.

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  13. You got one thing right there Andrea, on being warm. He did say that my cheeks were warm to his touch. Dia tanya 'you demam ke?'. :P

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